Be Your Motivation

Have you ever gotten to a stage in your life when you think "oh am tired, I don't won't to do this anymore or you say "no one wanna to care about what am doing?" Well, as at that point all you want to hear is " hey! Nice job-keep it up!" We as women long for words of encouragement, appreciation and motivation Motivation is a vital tool that we women long for.. We tend to need that push to make us do more and better. But sometimes the motivation doesn't come.

No one really cares about your existence. Sometimes we even get blamed for doing things we love. We get enemies for being good. We even get ignored for being caring. Then we ask ourselves " what's going on?" With this we become moody, unhappy n sometimes decide not to do anything and let things be. When we get to this point of misery, self- motivation is what we need. It is not easy but its worth it.

  THE TWO WAY METHOD TO SELF-MOTIVATION

 Method One :
You have to believe in yourself and what you are doing No one can tell you what you are doing is good if you do not believe that what you are doing is good. Self motivation has to come from you. You have to value what you do. With that even if anyone does not even care, as long as you care- thats all that matters.

Method two :
Fill your heart and mind with inspirational words. At a time in my life I taught no one cared about me, that I was ugly and I was absolutely nothing. So I came to realize no one cared because I didn't care about myself. At that point I got a paper and wrote down the following:

 1. I am who God says I am
 2.I am wonderfully and beautifully made
3.God loves me no matter what
4. I can do all things
5.I am a success
6. Am a role model to my generation.

  I read this into my mind everyday doing that period of my life. It helped motivate me... I started working towards making myself better without anyone's help.
 Also these quotes helped me motivate myself
 - “Courage is looking fear right in the eye and saying, “Get the hell out of my way, I’ve got things to do.” – Unknown
 - “No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” – Tony Robbins
 - Sometimes you face difficulties not because you’re doing something wrong, but because you’re doing something right. - Joel Osteen

 And many other quotes ,to my surprise, I got progress and even began receiving remarks that helped motivate me. Try it! It helps to erase fear and increase faith in yourself and what you do Self motivation is important, it is one of the important steps to success. Be your motivation!